Interesting

"men acting like women without looking female" I never really thought about TG from this perspective before. I think in most of my stories, the mental aspect **follows** the physical, but if I did it the other way around, then it might be what you're looking for. I think of everything I've ever written, [this one](http://www.fictionmania.tv/stories/magic/TakeMeHome.txt) probably comes closest to what you describe. Can you tell me where it falls on your scale?