Is Jon more or less happy as a girl

Jane opened her mouth to answer and then she shut it without saying anything. After nearly a minute of silence, Jane said. "I don't know if CJ will suffer. She seems to be very happy as a girl, happier than Jon was as a boy. I don't know if we didn't somehow make that true. And if we did make it true, then can we undo it. You said that we can't *unwish* wishes that didn't have some sort of out in the wish." Jane looked at her best friend. "What am I to do?"